First off, we are talking about a relationship with said
crazy, right? Many guys will take a one night stand of hot sex with an
out-the-window bat-shit crazy woman. In fact, lots of guys will take a couple
weeks of that action. Right up until he begins to sniff “relationship.” So, I
will assume we are talking about a relationship and not just tossing the dirty
leg with some nutcase.
When I say relationship I mean your family and friends
know your partner has got the crazy. If no one knows then that it is more like
asking how long will someone have an affair with a crazy just for the hot
monkey-sex? Right up until someone finds out, that’s how long.
What do we mean by hot sex? Well, we mean no holes
barred, she is totally into it, pushing your boundaries, over the top sex. No
one says no. No one complains. No one questions. No one judges. You don’t even
tell your closest friend half of what you do. Whatever the two of you are doing
she is totally into it, and you never, ever doubt it.
Of course, I am stalling. Because, of course, the answer
depends. It depends on the guy. The longer a man can tolerate crazy in a
relationship just for the hot sex, then the more self-centered that man is,
then the more that man sees the woman as a prop.
Let’s be clear on tolerate. Some men like the crazy, so
they are not tolerating it, they are attracted to it. The drama and the
hysterics are like the candle to the moth. But who are we fooling? They look
for the crazy because they are looking for the hot sex that might come along
with it. Would they really stick it out with the crazy if that is all there
was?
But the answer still depends and so I can only truly
answer for myself. I would not be in a relationship just for the sex, but I do
like a bit-o-crazy. Baggage and some drama, in other words emotion, are things
everyone has. I would rather it be expressed out in the open. Yes, please.
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